biblical roles of men and women. Thus, I cannot conceive of allowing a young man to ask for my daughter’s hand in marriage without my ascertaining his position on male headship. This is important for at least two reasons. First, any young man who undervalues male headship is not likely to lead his family. As a pastor I have had more than my share of conversations with women seeking prayer, counsel, help, or a big stick when it comes to getting their husband to “step up and lead” like they know he’s supposed