THE idea that leadership (a word that romances all of us) is first about character, then about a disciplined charisma and competence. In other words, reshape the spiritual parts of a person, as Jesus did, and a forceful but humble kind of leadership begins to emerge from within. This seems to have been the way of Moses, for example. If all one needed in order to be a leader was passion, education, and connection, then Moses had it all at the age of forty. Yet the first time out of the box, he failed