His goal is that your heart will become bitter, despairing, proud, or apathetic by living with a difficult spouse. As a heart becomes darkened or numbed, it loses integrity and the ability to love. When this occurs, the enemy wins because the beauty and the glory God intended for you to celebrate in your marriage is gone. Paul warns us, “But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another” (Galatians 5:15). The Evil One is brilliant at getting spouses to turn