shadow of death by ourselves. Years later, we still meet. Men have lost their wives, their jobs, and everything else that comes a man’s way, but we have gone through it together. If there is one thing I have learned through the years, it is that sharing life together is better than struggling alone. We need to develop situations where men can get into those types of relationships. It’s the “so what?” factor. We can take twenty or thirty guys to a large men’s conference, and they get stoked. Then they