A woman of sobriety is a woman of pause. She thinks before she acts. She prays before she speaks. This is calm and collected in action. Let me give you an example. I just received an email three minutes ago that I suppose God meant for an illustration of this very point. Without divulging details, my first instinct is to close this document immediately and fire off a response that will put this girl in her place. She is wrong, she is causing problems, and she has hurt my friend. However, I pause.