When we learn to separate people from their actions, it becomes much easier to love them in spite of how they hurt us. Now I’m not saying it ever gets easy to watch someone attack Luke or second-guess him when I know how he agonizes over decisions where the body is concerned. However, it helps immensely to recognize that Satan is the ultimate Stink Stirrer and accuser of the brethren. Remembering this, I can aim my righteous indignation toward him instead of allowing my unrighteous anger to be directed