Sirach 33:19–23
19 To son or wife, to brother or friend,
do not give power over yourself, as long as you live;
and do not give your property to another,
lest you change your mind and must ask for it.
20 While you are still alive and have breath in you,
do not let any one take your place.
21 For it is better that your children should ask from you
than that you should look to the hand of your sons.
bring no stain upon your honor.
23 At the time when you end the days of your life,
in the hour of death, distribute your inheritance.