Sirach 33:19–24
19 Hear me, you who are great among the people,
and you leaders of the congregation, pay heed!
20 To son or wife, to brother or friend,
do not give power over yourself, as long as you live;
and do not give your property to another,
in case you change your mind and must ask for it.
21 While you are still alive and have breath in you,
do not let anyone take your place.
22 For it is better that your children should ask from you
than that you should look to the hand of your children.
bring no stain upon your honor.
24 At the time when you end the days of your life,
in the hour of death, distribute your inheritance.