9 When an influential person invites you, be reserved,

and he will invite you more insistently.

10 Do not be forward, or you may be rebuffed;

do not stand aloof, or you will be forgotten.

11 Do not try to treat him as an equal,

or trust his lengthy conversations;

for he will test you by prolonged talk,

and while he smiles he will be examining you.

12 Cruel are those who do not keep your secrets;

they will not spare you harm or imprisonment.

13 Be on your guard and very careful,

for you are walking about with your own downfall.c