21 What do you prefer? Shall I come to you with a rod of discipline, or shall I come in love and with a gentle spirit?

21 What do you wish? Shall I come to you with a rod, or with love in a spirit of gentleness?

21 What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?

21 What do you want? Shall I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?

21 Which do you want: that I come to you with punishment or with love and gentleness?

21 What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?

21 What will ye? that I come to you with a rod; or in love, and in a spirit of meekness?

21 When I come to visit you, would you prefer that I punish you or show you love and a gentle spirit? 

21 What do you want? Should I come to you with a rod, or in love and a spirit of gentleness?

21 What would you prefer? Am I to come to you with a stick, or with love in a spirit of gentleness?

21 What do you want? Shall I come to you with a rod, or with love and a spirit of gentleness?

21 Which do you want? Should I come to you with a whip? Or should I come in love and with a gentle spirit?

21 What do you desire? Shall I come to you with a rod, or with love and a spirit of gentleness?