Proverbs 19

If You Quit Listening

¹19Better to be poor and honest

than a rich person no one can trust.

²Ignorant zeal is worthless;

haste makes waste.

³People ruin their lives by their own stupidity,

so why does God always get blamed?

⁴Wealth attracts friends as honey draws flies,

but poor people are avoided like a plague.

⁵Perjury won’t go unpunished.

Would you let a liar go free?

⁶Lots of people flock around a generous person;

everyone’s a friend to the philanthropist.

⁷When you’re down on your luck, even your family avoids you—

yes, even your best friends wish you’d get lost.

If they see you coming, they look the other way—

out of sight, out of mind.

⁸Grow a wise heart—you’ll do yourself a favor;

keep a clear head—you’ll find a good life.

⁹The person who tells lies gets caught;

the person who spreads rumors is ruined.

¹⁰Blockheads shouldn’t live on easy street

any more than workers should give orders to their boss.

¹¹Smart people know how to hold their tongue;

their grandeur is to forgive and forget.

¹²Mean-tempered leaders are like mad dogs;

the good-natured are like fresh morning dew.

¹³A parent is worn to a frazzle by a stupid child;

a nagging spouse is a leaky faucet.

¹⁴House and land are handed down from parents,

but a congenial spouse comes straight from God.

¹⁵Life collapses on loafers;

lazybones go hungry.

¹⁶Keep the rules and keep your life;

careless living kills.

¹⁷Mercy to the needy is a loan to God,

and God pays back those loans in full.

¹⁸Discipline your children while you still have the chance;

indulging them destroys them.

¹⁹Let angry people endure the backlash of their own anger;

if you try to make it better, you’ll only make it worse.

²⁰Take good counsel and accept correction—

that’s the way to live wisely and well.

²¹We humans keep brainstorming options and plans,

but God’s purpose prevails.

²²It’s only human to want to make a buck,

but it’s better to be poor than a liar.

²³Fear-of-God is life itself,

a full life, and serene—no nasty surprises.

²⁴Some people dig a fork into the pie

but are too lazy to raise it to their mouth.

²⁵Punish the insolent—make an example of them.

Who knows? Somebody might learn a good lesson.

²⁶Kids who lash out against their parents

are an embarrassment and disgrace.

²⁷If you quit listening, dear child, and strike off on your own,

you’ll soon be out of your depth.

²⁸An unprincipled witness desecrates justice;

the mouths of the wicked spew malice.

²⁹The irreverent have to learn reverence the hard way;

only a slap in the face brings fools to attention.