Luke 14:26–28

26 “If anyone comes to mee and does not hatef his own father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, and even his own life—he cannot be my disciple. 27 Whoever does not bear his own crossg and come after me cannot be my disciple.

28 “For which of you, wanting to build a tower, doesn’t first sit down and calculate the costh to see if he has enough to complete it?