to my cause, they didn’t get my time or attention. To add value to others, one must first value others. I think this wrong attitude is very common. One of the best stories I’ve ever read that illustrates this point is told by a nurse. She explains: During my second year of nursing school our professor gave us a quiz. I breezed through the questions until I read the last one: “What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?” Surely this was a joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several