Suffering

and the Heart

of God:

How Trauma Destroys and Christ Restores

Diane Langberg

New Growth Press, Greensboro, NC 27404

Copyright © 2015 by Diane Langberg

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ISBN 978-1-942572-03-9 (eBook)

ISBN 978-1-942572-02-2 (Print)

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Langberg, Diane.

Suffering and the heart of God: how trauma destroys

and Christ restores / Diane Langberg.

pages cm

ISBN 978-1-942572-02-2 (print)—ISBN 9781942572039 (ebook)

1. Suffering—Religious aspects—Christianity. 2. Traumatism. 3. Caring—Religious aspects—Christianity. 4. Helping behavior—Religious aspects—Christianity. I. Title.

BT732.7.L36 2015

248.8’6—dc23

2015015583

Printed in United States of America

22 21 20 19 18 17 16 15 1 2 3 4 5

Contents

Introduction

Suffering, the World, and the Heart of God

1. Trauma as a Place of Service

2. Justice vs. Complicity

3. The Psychology of Evil and Sin

4. The Psychology of Suffering

5. The Fellowship of His Sufferings

6. The Spiritual Impact of Abuse

Ministry in the Context of Christian Community

7. Ministry to the Suffering

8. Shame and Trauma

9. Living with Trauma Memories

10. Living with Ongoing Trauma

11. The Many Faces of Grief

12. Leadership, Power, and Deception in the Church and the Home

13. Sexual Abuse in Christian Organizations

Ministry in the Clinician’s Office

14. Complex Trauma

15. Understanding Domestic Violence

16. Understanding Sexual Abuse

17. Narcissism and the System It Breeds

Care for the Counselor

18. Ten Lessons for Counseling Students

19. Secondary Trauma

20. Beauty in Garbage City

Appendix A: A Survivor’s Expression of Faith

Appendix B: Lament

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About Suffering and the Heart of God: How Trauma Destroys and Christ Restores

Do Trauma and Abuse Have the Last Word?

When someone suffers through trauma, can healing happen? And, if yes, how does it happen? Dr. Diane Langberg tackles these complex and difficult questions with the insights she has gained through more than forty years of counseling those whose lives have been destroyed by trauma and abuse. Her answer carefully explained in Suffering and the Heart of God is Yes, what trauma destroys, Jesus can and does restore.

But it's not a fast process, instead much patience is required from family, friends, and counselors as they wisely and respectfully help victims unpack their traumatic suffering through talking, tears, and time. And it's not a process that can be separated from the work of God in both a counselor and counselee. Dr. Langberg calls all of those who wish to help sufferers to model Jesus's sacrificial love and care in how they listen, love, and guide.

The heart of God is revealed to sufferers as they grow to understand the cross of Jesus Christ and how their God came to this earth and experienced such severe suffering that he too is well-acquainted with grief. The cross of Jesus Christ is the lens that transforms and redeems traumatic suffering and its aftermath, not only for the sufferer, but it also transforms those who walk with the suffering.

This Christian book will be a great help to anyone who loves, listens to, and seeks to help someone impacted by trauma and abuse. There is no quick fix, but there is the hope for healing through the love of God in Jesus Christ.

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