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Bold Love

Dr. Dan B. Allender

Dr. Tremper Longman III

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© 1992 by Wounded Heart Ministries and Tremper Longman III

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Library of Congress Catalog Card Number: 92-60188

ISBN 978-0-89109-703-7

Some of the anecdotal illustrations in this book are true to life and are included with the permission of the persons involved. All other illustrations are composites of real situations, and any resemblance to people living or dead is coincidental.

Unless otherwise noted, all Scripture in this publication is from the Holy Bible: New International Version (niv). Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan Bible Publishers. Another version used is the New American Standard Bible (nasb), © The Lockman Foundation 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977.

Allender, Dan B.

Bold love / Dan B. Allender, Tremper Longman III.

319 p.; 24 cm.

Includes bibliographical references.

ISBN 08910-97031

1. Love—Religious aspects—Christianity. 2. Love-hate relationships—Religious aspects—Christianity. 3. Interpersonal relations. 4. Reconciliation—Religious aspects—Christianity. I. Longman, Tremper.

241.4 A432b

Contents

Foreword

Introduction FORGIVENESS:

An Intricate Mystery

PART ONE THE BATTLEFIELD OF THE HEART

Chapter 1 MIXED FEELINGS ABOUT LOVE:

What Drives a Human Heart?

Chapter 2 TAKING OUR HATRED OUT OF THE CLOSET:

Why Don’t We Love Better?

Chapter 3 STUNNED INTO SILENCE:

The Liberating Insult of Grace

Chapter 4 FACING A WAR OF HEARTS:

How Do We Harm Each Other?

Chapter 5 OUR DIVINE WARRIOR:

Hope for Triumph in Battle

PART TWO STRATEGY FOR THE WAR OF LOVE

Chapter 6 RÉSUMÉ OF A WARRIOR:

Qualifications of the Heart

Chapter 7 HUNGERING FOR RESTORATION:

A Passionate Hope for Beauty

Chapter 8 REVOKING REVENGE:

A Merciful Invitation to Brokenness

Chapter 9 GIVING GOOD GIFTS:

A Cunning Intrusion of Truth

PART THREE COMBAT FOR THE SOUL

Chapter 10 LOVING AN EVIL PERSON:

Siege Warfare

Chapter 11 LOVING A FOOL:

Guerilla Warfare

Chapter 12 LOVING A NORMAL SINNER:

Athletic Competition

Epilogue BOLD LOVE:

A Sword in the Heart of Death

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About Bold Love

We’ve come to view love as being nice. Forgiving and forgetting. Yielding to the desires of others. Yet the kind of love modeled by Jesus Christ has nothing to do with manners or unconditional acceptance. Rather, it is disruptive, courageous, and socially unacceptable.

In Bold Love, Dr. Dan Allender and Dr. Tremper Longman III draw out the aggressive, unrelenting, passionate power of genuine love. Far from helping you “get along” with others, Bold Love introduces the outlandish possibility of making a significant, life-changing impact on family, friends, coworkers—even your enemies.

“Bold love is anything but passive,” writes Dr. Allender. “It is unpredictable, cunning, and creative. It is a violation of the natural order of things. In many cases it will unnerve, offend, disturb, or even hurt those who are being loved. But in the end it will also compel them to deal with the internal disease that is robbing them (and others) of true beauty.”

So if it feels like you've turned the other cheek so many times your head is spinning, it’s probably time to take a second look at your practice of love. Because there’s nothing redemptive about a love that just accepts people for who they are.

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