BEFRIENDING SILENCE

DISCOVERING THE GIFTS OF CISTERCIAN SPIRITUALITY

CARL McCOLMAN

Ave Maria Press Notre Dame, Indiana

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McColman, Carl.

Befriending silence : discovering the gifts of Cistercian spirituality / Carl McColman.

pages cm

Includes bibliographical references.

ISBN 978-1-59471-615-7 -- ISBN 1-59471-615-3

1. Cistercians--Spiritual life. 2. Spirituality--Christianity. 3. Spiritual life--Christianity. I. Title.

BX3403.M33 2015

248.4’82--dc23

2015018827

FOR PACO AND MALIKA,

AND, OF COURSE,

RHIANNON

We did not come here for the scenery, the architecture, the fresh air, the music, the country life, or for human friendship.… We were brought here that God’s love might live in us.

—Thomas Merton, The Waters of Siloe

The persons I know who are most advanced in prayer are married or engaged in active ministries, running around all day to fulfill their duties.

—Thomas Keating, Open Mind, Open Heart

CONTENTS

A Note about Language

Introduction

From Bernard’s Valley to Merton’s Mountain

Chapter 1

Charism: A Gift from God (with a Greek Accent)

Chapter 2

Sacred Stories: Remembering Who We Truly Are

Chapter 3

Formation: You Are the Potter, I Am the Clay

Chapter 4

Humility: Down-to-Earth Spirituality

Chapter 5

Hospitality: Welcoming Christ, Welcoming Others

Chapter 6

Compassion and Community: Where Two or Three Are Gathered

Chapter 7

Prayer and Liturgy: The Rhythm of the Day

Chapter 8

Contemplation: The Star of the Sea

Chapter 9

Conversion of Life: A Promise for All Time

Chapter 10

Stability: Blooming Where We’re Planted

Chapter 11...

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About Befriending Silence: Discovering the Gifts of Cistercian Spirituality

In Befriending Silence: Discovering the Gifts of Cistercian Spirituality respected speaker, author, and Patheos blogger Carl McColman introduces Cistercian spirituality as “the hidden jewel of the Church,” presenting a surprisingly contemporary path grounded in monastic tradition. This accessible and comprehensive guide highlights a unique focus on simplicity, living close to the earth, and contemplative prayer, all of which make Cistercian spirituality relevant today.

Steeped in chant and silence, grounded in down-to-earth work and service, and immersed in the mystical wisdom of teachers ancient (Bernard of Clairvaux) and modern (Thomas Merton), Cistercian spirituality’s beautifully humble path has for centuries made monasteries places of rest, retreat, and renewal. Now, Carl McColman offers the first practical introduction to this ancient method of contemplative spirituality for all people.

Hailed by reviewers of his many books as playful and profound, McColman draws on his experience as a lay Cistercian to provide insight into the relevance of the tradition to contemporary issues and spiritual practice. He explains how silence, simplicity, stability, stewardship of the earth, contemplation, ongoing conversion, and devotion to Mary combine to offer a rich and unique path to discipleship and intimacy with God.

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