Where Do Broken Hearts Go?

An Integrative, Participational Theology of Grief

W. Ross Hastings

foreword by

Dr. Judith McBride, Psychiatrist

WHERE DO BROKEN HEARTS GO?

An Integrative, Participational Theology of Grief

Copyright © 2016 W. Ross Hastings. All rights reserved. Except for brief quotations in critical publications or reviews, no part of this book may be reproduced in any manner without prior written permission from the publisher. Write: Permissions, Wipf and Stock Publishers, 199 W. 8th Ave., Suite 3, Eugene, OR 97401.

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Names: Hastings, W. Ross.

Title: Where do broken hearts go? : an integrative, participational theology of grief / W. Ross Hastings.

Description: Eugene, OR: Cascade Books, 2016 | Includes bibliographical references and index.

Identifiers: isbn 978-1-4982-7847-8 (paperback) | isbn 978-1-4982-7849-2 (hardcover) | isbn 978-1-4982-7848-5 (ebook)

Subjects: LCSH:1. Grief—Religious aspects—Christianity. 2. Bereavement—Religious aspects—Christianity. 3. Loss (Psychology)—Religious aspects—Christianity. 4. Consolation—Religious aspects—Christianity. I. McBride, Judith. II. Title.

Classification: BV4460.6 H37 2016 (print) | BV4460.6 (ebook)

Manufactured in the U.S.A.

Dedicated to

Willie and Betty Hastings

Table of Contents

Foreword

Preface

Acknowledgements

List of Abbreviations

Introduction

Chapter 1: A Grief Shared . . . Introducing the Story

Chapter 2: A Grief Shared . . . Universally by Humanity, and with Divinity

Chapter 3: The Mystery in Grief and Loss

Chapter 4: How We Know What We Do Know

Chapter 5: The Source and Nature of Grief - Insights from Trinitarian Theology - Modeling

Chapter 6: The Source and Nature of Grief - Insights from Trinitarian Theology - Participating

Chapter 7: The Source and Nature of Grief - Insights from Psychology

Chapter 8: Moving towards Adaptation - Grief Sharing With the Triune God in Deconstruction

Chapter 9: Moving towards Adaptation - Grief Sharing With the Triune God in Recontsruction

Chapter 10: Moving towards Adaptation - Theodicy of the Triune God Who Suffers

Chapter 11: Moving towards Adaptation - Grief Sharing With the People of the Triune God (1)

Chapter 12: Moving towards Adaptation - Grief Sharing With the People of the Triune God (2)

Chapter 13: Moving towards Adaptation - Grief Sharing with God Through Personal Practices

Bibliography

Foreword

Why another book to add to the vast amount of literature addressing the subject of death and dying? Many theoretical works as well as personal narrative accounts of the dying process are readily available.

In Where Do Broken Hearts Go? Dr. Hastings is clear in stating that this is not one more self-help guide, and it isn’t. There are no formulas for us to apply ...

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About Where Do Broken Hearts Go? An Integrative, Participational Theology of Grief

Grounded in the narrative of the loss of his own wife, Ross Hastings seeks to provide insight into the universal human condition of loss and grief . . . and speaks comfort. All kinds of losses produce grief--loss of jobs, homes, friendships, health, losses through divorce, and loss through death of parents, children, and spouses--and we are often unprepared for it. Applicable to all who go through loss, this book will also offer skills for pastors, pastors-in-training, and friends seeking to offer comfort to grieving people. It will weave together first-order theological, as well as integrated psychological insights that relate to loss and grieving, interspersed with personal stories. The ultimately redemptive nature of grief is highlighted, with sensitivity to the grieving process. It offers comfort for the grieving found in fresh awareness of the orientation and action of the triune God who is for us, who invites us to participate in his life and love, and gathers up our grief, and in Christ, suffers with us. It beckons us towards spiritual attentiveness, permission for emotional honesty, normalization of the grief process, practices that enable coping and redemptive transformation in the present, and hope grounded in future resurrection reality.

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