unpacking

FORGIVENESS

biblical answers for complex questions and deep wounds

chris BRAUNS

CROSSWAY BOOKS

WHEATON, ILLINOIS

Unpacking Forgiveness

Copyright © 2008 by Chris Brauns

Published by Crossway Books

a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers

1300 Crescent Street

Wheaton, Illinois 60187

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Cover design: Jessica Dennis

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First printing, 2008

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PDF ISBN: 978-1-4335-0484-6

Mobipocket ISBN: 978-1-4335-0485-3

Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

Brauns, Chris, 1963–

Unpacking forgiveness : biblical answers for complex questions and deep wounds / Chris Brauns.

p. cm.

Includes bibliographical references and index.

ISBN 978-1-58134-980-1

1. Forgiveness of sin. 2. Forgiveness—Religious aspects—Christianity. I. Title.

BT795.B26 2008

234'.5—dc22

2008009804-

For Jamie,

the grace and truth of Genesis 2:18 in my life

Contents

Acknowledgments

Introduction: The Forgiveness Quiz

1 How to Begin Unpacking

2 Motivation to Unpack

3 Defining Forgiveness: The Divine Pattern

4 Defining Forgiveness for Christians

5 More Than a Feeling

6 The Way Up Is Down

7 Unpack with Great Urgency

8 Should I Just Get Over It?

9 How Should I Go about It?

10 What If I Won’t Forgive?

11 How Should I Respond to the Unrepentant? Two Principles

12 How Should I Respond to the Unrepentant? A Third Principle

13 How Can I Conquer Bitterness?

14 How Can I Stop Thinking about It?

15 What If Christians Cannot Agree?

16 Final Thoughts

Appendix 1: More Forgiveness Questions

Appendix 2: What Other Authors Say about Conditional Forgiveness

Appendix 3: Biblical Words for Forgiveness

Select Bibliography

Scripture Index

General Index

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About Unpacking Forgiveness: Biblical Answers for Complex Questions and Deep Wounds

Helps readers move beyond the wounds and baggage of bitterness, disagreements, and broken relationships.

"True or false: most Christian pastors and counselors agree on what forgiveness is and how it should take place." This question is part of Chris Brauns's Forgiveness Quiz that draws readers into his book and gets them thinking about the subject of forgiveness. The truth is, pastors and counselors disagree profoundly on this subject. Unpacking Forgiveness combines sound theological thinking and honesty about the complicated questions many face to provide readers with a solid understanding of biblical forgiveness.

Only God's Word can unpack forgiveness. The wounds are too deep for us to find healing on our own, and the questions are too complex to be unraveled by anything but the wisdom of God. This book goes beyond a feel-good doctrine of automatic forgiveness, balancing the beauty of God's grace and the necessity of forgiveness with the teaching that forgiveness must take place in a way that is consistent with justice.

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